Kissing Frogs
I have been single for the past six years. During that time I’ve tried speed dating, internet dating sites and the regular kind of “meet someone in real life” dating. I have had times that I have thoroughly enjoyed my singleness and the freedom it brings of doing what I want, when I want, without having to constantly consider someone else. I’ve been able to work like a maniac without guilt, and take off at short notice to do exciting things with friends.
I’ve also learned how to pick myself up and get on with things. I know which of my friends are there for me when the going gets tough and who I can call at 3am if I ever needed. If there’s something I want to do, or a film I want to see, I can happily go off by myself and do it. I have learned how to do everything needed to live by myself, even gardening!
But there are times when I wish I could stop kissing the wrong boys and find the right one. Or rather a “right one”. I’m not a believer that there is just one person out there. I definitely think there are a few people in the world who have the right combination of personality and chemistry for love, friendship and everything else.
I can do most things by myself, and enjoy them too. But there is something about having another human being to share things and build memories with that I miss. It would be nice to enjoy those private and silly moments with someone that I don’t necessarily want the rest of the world to know about.
Sometimes when life goes a bit wrong, it would be nice to have someone else to rely on for a change. Having someone who’s close enough to spot when I’m having a rough day or two and turn up with a smile on their face and a hug without me needing to ask (if they can make a good cup of tea even better!)
Apart from the odd bad day I am somewhat of an optimist and so I will continue believing that amongst the frogs one day one of those princes will show up. Until then I’ll keep enjoying life and be thankful for the amazing family and friends I already have.
“You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince”
…And in the meantime, fabulous shoes can help to fill the void somewhat!
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